Girls?

This is a very random post.
This post is about how girls feel&think. MOSTLY.

Not saying every girl. :)

I'm not sure where to start.

Most girls feel insecure. Yes, INSECURE.

That feeling is the worst feeling ever.

The feeling of not good enough.

And it makes us even hate ourselves.

#Once again, I post about what I'm thinking at the moment only, sorry if you don't relate#

Hurt ourselves, curse ourselves, even though we know that's a sin.

For some reason, we just hate ourselves for everything we are.

We hate our hair for being messy every time no matter how hard we fix them; for being too short or too long; for being too straight or too curly.

We hate our eyes for being too small or big.

We hate our body for being thin/curvy.

We just think that every inch of our body is not right.

We'll always say to ourselves to ignore society.

But, that barely works.

We will always care about what people say.

We get jealous of other girls.

"Oh my, she's so much prettier."

"How I want to look like her and have a body like her."

"Some" girls might even be sad just by looking at themselves in the mirror.

Well, for me, society will never be satisfied.

We ARE the society, and we never are satisfied with ourselves.

I know that it's easier to say than to do, but...

Ignore the people staring and judging when they see you.

You can either walk away or smile to them.

Smile to them... That might do the trick.

Let everyone know that you're born not to impress every single person in this world.

Oh and, you can either be yourself or be what you want to be.

You only live once - not yolo. 

Words hurt. They do. I feel you.

Some girls are also scared of not having friends.

Scared that most of their "friends" are only there when they have something.

Scared of being used by their "friends".

Especially when we've been betrayed before.

They say that they're our BFFs but then don't have any trust on us.

Every relationship needs trust.

And some girls...

Are just scared about that one guy they love.

"What if he doesn't like me back?"

"What if I'm not good enough for him?"

"Those other girls are much better than me for him."

"I'm scared that he'll be scared of me."

"I'm scared that he can't accept my flaws."
Cause everything we ever wanted is to be loved the same way we loved.
When we love someone...
Their flaws won't get in the way, but our flaws will.
Back again to "I'm never going to be good enough."
Well, here's the thing.
You're not perfect, neither is he and everybody else.
Someone might be perfect in your eyes.
But, everyone has a flaw.
We accepted theirs and we should also accept ours.
And if someone really loves you...
I'm sure that they can't find any flaw in you.
In their eyes, you're perfect.
Insecurities make us over think and over thinking kills.
It's easy to say this than do it (I know), but: stop being insecure, put a smile on - stop faking them - and just enjoy your life.
I know that I, myself, still have problems with that.
But hey... there's nothing wrong with baby-steps.
Besides, there's someone helping me with that.
Even though he doesn't realize that he is.

HAPPINESS might be the number one thing every girl wants in their life.
So boys, grant them a little bit of that.
Happy girls are the prettiest you know.


P.S. I know that this post is freaking random.
I'm not writing in a good order.
But this is just a post of me pouring what's inside my mind.
And I wanted to write about this because a friend of mine is feeling this way and I freaking relate.
So, I hope this is enjoying?

Oh and, girls out there, PLEASE STOP HURTING YOURSELVES.
Every girl deserves to feel beautiful no matter what their size/colour/shape/etc.
And girls, you're all beautiful.